Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Don't Blame it on Disney!

"Second chances. Girls take more of them than guys do. Why? I blame Disney, building up these false hopes, making me believe I can have my Prince Charming. We believe that one day we’re going to be saved, that one day, one boy is going to come & change our whole lives around in the most perfect way. In the movies there’s no ‘other woman’, there’s no deception. There’s just a happy ending, conditions & circumstances don’t apply. So what are we to do when our hearts get broken? The logical thing to do is move on, of course, but despite all the lying, the cheating, the crushed dreams, & the painful memories, there’s a speck of hope. A tiny little, itty bitty piece of our hearts that’s begging for the fairy tale, screaming that we let him try again. So we do. We cry & bite our tongues, hoping that this liar in aluminium foil will finally become our knight in shining armour. Hoping that this time he’ll be able to make us feel safe & actually do it. That’s why we break so easily; cause our fairy tale dreams are placed on real life boys. Boys who need to be saved themselves." - Lottes

I really hate it when people blame Disney for their heartbreak. I should hope that girls have a mind of their own to differentiate between fairytales and reality and act accordingly. I myself am a self-confessed Disney fanatic, and while I do fantasize about fairytales and happy-ever-afters, I don't expect my life to be that way because - DUH - Life isn't that way. I don't expect guys to be prince charmings who would take me on a magic carpet ride, find my missing glass slipper, and live in an Enchanted castle. I just enjoy watching movies like that kc napapa- "Aww" ako and it makes me feel all giddy inside :) But when it comes to my life, my choices are mine alone and although outside forces can influence these, it's still up to me if I would base my decisions from whatever-it-is-that-may-affect-my-decision. so kung nagpapakagago ka sa boyfriend mo, wag mong sisihin ung Disney sa pagbigay sa kanya ng second chance. sisihin mo sarili mo! bweset!!

yun lang. nkakapikon e. hahahaha :D sarap lang mag-rant!

14 comments:

  1. i agree. mahilig din ako sa Disney [princess, hehe] films at iba pang mga romance, lovey-dovey shit but i never blamed them for heartbreak. they're there to take us on magic carpet rides, so we can forget the sting of reality even for a while. yun lang.

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  2. maybe the "boys" she chooses are the "Boys who need to be saved themselves." maybe she's the type who hopes to change this kind of boys and if it doesn't happen, she b.tch about there's-no-such-thing-as-fairy-tales-and-prince-charming. tsk tsk pathetic

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  3. "so kung nagpapakagago ka sa boyfriend mo, wag mong sisihin ung Disney sa pagbigay sa kanya ng second chance. sisihin mo sarili mo! bweset!!"

    haha panalo ate jam =)

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  4. relax lang! hahah! apektado sa disney wala! :P

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  5. putek! hahahaha! may pinaghugutan? hehehe... ano ka ba? isang malaking kalokohan yang fairy tales!

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  6. oo nga! sinabe mo pa. simpleng entertainment lang nman tlga ang tv etc. e :) ewan ko ba sa mga babaeng ganyan magisip. nkakapikon e. hahaha :)

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  7. magandang teorya yan. cguro nga ganyan xa. nkakabweset lang e. hahaha :)

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  8. salamat! :) hahaha :P seryoso yan though. hahaha =D

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  9. uminit dugo ko tlga nung nabasa ko to e. hahaha :P apektado!
    lamo nman Disney loyalist ako. ayko ng sinisiraan ang Disney. hahaha :)

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  10. grabe dba?buti nga nde all caps e. hahaha :P
    alam mo zek, iba iba ang ibig sabihin ng fairytale sa tao. nde nman necessarily klngan may kalabasang magiging carriage pra matawag na fairytale e. kaya wag kang makielam. hahahaha :P

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  11. Ano to? San mo naman to nakuha?
    Dko na binasa, haba ee Hahahaha
    Ung comments lang binasa ko ^__^

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  12. On second thought, binasa ko na rin.
    Parehas kayong my point.
    Emo lang nga ung POV nya. Hahaha

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  13. andun ung source sa dulo ng entry. link un. hehehe :)
    as usual d mo bnasa, wats new.

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  14. ambilis lang magbago ng isip. hahaha :P
    o cge xa na kampihan mo. bala ka jan!

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