trying hard

"Trying Hard" or TH. Ilang beses ko ng nagamit at narinig gamitin ang term na yan. "ang trying hard nman nya, d naman bagay..", "ang trying hard nya mag-[insert verb here], buti pa c [insert name here] mas natural..effortless"

Naisip ko lang recently, what's wrong with trying hard?Is giving something a shot and giving your all not worth anything anymore?In a perfect world, those who try harder should get what it is they worked hard for. but this is obviously not a perfect world. Sometimes giving your all is a complete waste of time and energy. People are always saying try and try until you succeed blahblahblah. but the moment you try something and things didn't work out as well as you would have wanted, other people will put you down. Meanwhile, you see other people not caring, not trying, but getting all the glory. The "effortless" people are reaping all [your] benefits. bakeett??whhhy??is it for you to try harder?or for you to just give up?ewan ko. maybe this is another "you-can't-have-everything" situation or "everything-happens-for-a-reason" scenario.

Ang masasabe ko lang, for those "trying hards" out there, it takes a lot of guts and effort to actually try something knowing there's a big chance that you will fall flat on your face and people will "boo" at you..the people putting you down are the ones who don't have the nerve to try it themselves. inggit lang cla! at the end of the day, at least you tried. If it's really what you want, keep trying cause maybe, just maybe, it will pay off this time. you'll never know if you don't try again dba? and don't get envious on the "effortless" people who seem to get what they want with very little or no effort. sinuwerte lang cla. hard work beats luck always! :)

 

This entry is inspired by Blair and Serena.

go figure! hahaha :D random!