Wendy or Tinkerbell?

The way I see it, every girl has to deal with a Peter Pan at some point in her life. A man-child, if you will. They’re fun, charming, witty, intoxicating and have such a magnetic personality that you don’t notice you’ve fallen completely in love with them until 4 months later. Then you have to decide which type of girl you are.

Are you a Wendy or a Tinkerbell?

See, if you’re a Wendy, you realize that the novelty of running through the neighbour’s lawn sprinklers at 3am completely naked and stealing bags of chips from 7-Eleven while one of you distracts the clerk, has worn off. So you pack up your bags and go off to grad school where you meet a nice young dentist that you can take home to your mom. Sure, sometimes you sit in bed with that perfect man lying next to you, thinking back on that one time you stole a couple shopping carts from Walgreens and raced them down the empty street. And you’ll smile, but you won’t regret moving on and taking responsibility for your life.

Now if you’re a Tinkerbell, you stay with Peter. Because you love one another and you both have an unspoken understanding that you’ve got too many psychological issues between you for it to work with anyone else. You thrive off the excitement and silliness of everything he does and it never gets old. You know why? Because you’re the only one who really “gets” him. And vice-versa. If you’re having a bad day he’ll put on Gilmore Girls because he knows it’ll make everything ok, if only for a few hours. And that, my friends, is true love.

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bato bato pix!

naconvince nya ko! talo nga ng bato ang papel. hahaha :P kaya lang bat prang galit na galit xa? hahaha :D prang ilang beses lang natalo sa bato bato pix e.

Mama

Something just happened 10 minutes ago and I just have to blog it eventhough I know I won't forget this ever :)

Ma: (suddenly appearing by the door) Ate may swine flu daw sa ospital nyo, totoo ba?
Jam: (still typing at the laptop) oo, sa ward 71. may isang nurse dun galing america. nakuha nya dun.
Ma: Ate, magaral ka nalang ule. wag ka ng magnurse, nde mo naman gusto un dba?magopisina ka nalang.
Jam: (in a whatever tone cz lage nman nya sinasbe sakin un. nangaasar) ok ka lang?
Ma: cge na ate, magaral ka nalang ule. 2 yrs lang nman un
Jam: (noticing the change in my mom's voice, looks at her. UMIIYAK!!!!) seryoso ka ba?
Ma: oo ngaaaa, e sayang nman kung anu. delikado sa ospital, magpartime ka nalang cguro tpos maghanap ka ng ibang trabaho. matagal ka narin nmang nagttrabaho e.
Jam: wala pa nga akong isang taon e. ayoko na magaral ule.

well, that's the gist. the point is umiiyak xa sa takot kc baka magkaswineflu ako. Isn't that just the sweetest thing ever?:) natouched ako sobra kahit na pabalang parin ako sumagot. hahaha :P

un lang nman, sharing :) Moms are the best, no? :D

P.S. pero ngyn natakot nako bigla sa swine flu na yan. 1 floor up lang kc ang ward 71 na yan from my ward 63. pero what can i do, sa ospital ako nagttrabaho e. alangan nmang magleave ako hnggang sa mamatay ang epidemyang yan. so dasal nalang. sana pahabain pa ni Lord ang buhay ko..

How to get the girl

girls totoo ba to???hahahaha :P I think giving the girl a tiny bit of attention will make a girl notice a guy rin nman. pero ignoring a girl is really classic. it has been proven to be effective numerous times. iba ata appeal ng suplado at ang attractive ng mga guys na walang gusto sayo. bakit nga baaa?? gustong gusto tlga natin naghahabol e. ewan ko ba! :D or is it just another example of "wanting someone you can't have". The challenge and excitement that comes with it?ako mismong babae nde ko maintindihan mga kapwa ko babae e. hahaha :P

Objects of my Affection

I have been known to become too attached to fictional characters in books, movies and TV so it shouldn't be a surprise to learn that I too get attached to inanimate objects. Non-living entities that has been with me since Day1 that couldn't possibly appreciate my loyalty to them are still here with me. If they could possibly talk, I bet they would say "Give me a break!" But they couldn't so sorry nalang sila! hahaha :P and because I love them, they should be featured in my blog :) Here are the top 5 things that has a special place in my heart forever and ever and everrrrr! heirloom material!

1. my rubber shoes

This is the only item that was bought here and not in Pinas. Originally my mom's, pero inangkin ko pra gamitin pag nagduduty ako sa ospital. ok kc walang sintas so nde ko klngan problemahin na matatapilok ako sa sintas ko. It has been my shoes for almost 4 yrs now ata. tingnan nyo nman ung ichura. wasak na wasak na. It makes people say "Jam, sumusweldo ka ba?bumili ka kaya ng bagong sapatos?" hahaha :P but no! we have been through ups and downs when I was a student and ngyong nagwowork nako, does that mean pagpapalit ko na xa??idontthinkso. haha :) pero since mukang malapit na xa magretire. I am planning na pagpahingahin na xa this July, when I finish the NewGrad programme sa ospital. may awa rin nman ako no! pero it won't be the same :(

2. my blue shirt

I can still remember buying this in the sale pile in SM southmall. It was a size smaller for me pero I was adamant in buying it kc gustong gusto ko tlaga xa and sale nman. I wore it to most junior events nung highschool, kc blue. and I still continued to wear it until college. I was wearing that shirt when I had a picture taken with my crush. It was the shirt I was wearing nung naging kami nung 1st serious bf ko. grabe daba?witness xa sa lahat! prang bestfriend lang! hahaha :P and now I can't wear it anymore kc ang laki ko na..huhuhuhu!!!!! :( pero I'm not gonna give it away shempre. papamana ko siguro sha someday pag kaya ko na xa ilet go. umaaasa pa ata akong papayat pako! hahaha :P

3. my purple bag

I remember buying this sa UST tiangge. It was my first "big" bag. pag aalis kc for outings and such, wla akong malaking bag. so naisip ko i needed one. It was the bag i used to put my clothes in nung nakitira ako sa bahay ng tito ko nung college. 1 taon rin un! basta may outing, roadtrip whatever, asahan nyong magkasama kame. gamit ko rin xa when i went back home and u can just imagine the faces of my friends. "buhay parn yan!!" hahaha :P sabe pa ng isang mom ng friend ko (mas nauna nyang nakita ung bag) "o anjan na c jam?" OMG daba?pati nanay kilala e! and I'm so happy nakasama rin xa sa Sydney! awwww...ang layo na ng narating namen! :) ngayon may kapatid na xang bag. and they're getting along well. It took me 5 years ata bago xa magkaron ng kasama. hehe :)

4. pencil case

I bought this one sa greenhills naman. I needed a pencilcase for school and so I bought it. and kahit green na ung loob nya dahil nagtae ung highlighter ko e love na love ko parin tong pencilcase nato. nasa loob nya e ung faber castell highlighter buddies ko (hindi sila ung nagtae, stabilo un! HMP!).. nagpabili pa tlga ako sa pinsan ko dati ng specific na highlighter na yun kc ang arte ko lang! hahaha :P

5. missed shirt

This is the only object here that was actually a gift and not bought. It was a despedida gift from Reena, my bestfriend, before I left. She stitched the words herself and it says "missed" kc I will be "missed" daw. and for that reason alone e ksama talaga xa sa favorite things ko. In my fear of ruining the shirt, I rarely wear it. I consider it my lucky shirt and I only wear it when I have exams and presentations to give me luck and so far it hasn't failed me :) It is the only piece of clothing that I am not too lazy to handwash :) hahaha :P special treatment talaga! hehe :P and since I'm done with school, I wonder when I'll be able to wear it again..

so that's my little family of treasured items :) I have a lot of old gifts from GS/HS pa na dinala ko rin dito pero sila tlga ung bida among them all. wala lang share ko lang. I feel so happy just doing this blog. hahaha :P loserrrrr!

Why, Archie?Whhyyy??

seryoso??after all these years, c Veronica ang pipiliin nya! it just goes to show that Archie is just like every other guy in the male population! hahaha :P apektado talaga! at first nashock ako na may Archie comics parin. then saka lang nagsink-in na si Veronica ang pinili nya. badtrip lang e! Betty parin!! hahaha :D 

I've learned

I've learned...

By Omer B. Washington

I’ve learned that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.
I’ve learned that no matter how much I care,
some people just don’t care back.
I’ve learned that it takes years to build up trust
and only seconds to destroy it.
I’ve learned that it’s not what you have in your life
but who you have in your life that counts.
I’ve learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.
After that, you’d better know something.

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t compare yourself
to the best others can do,
but to the best you can do.
I’ve learned that it’s not what happens to people,
It’s what they do about it that matters.
I’ve learned that no matter how thin you slice it,
there are always two sides.
I’ve learned that you should always talk to loved ones with loving words.
It may be the last time you’ll see them.
I’ve learned that you can keep going
long after you think you can’t.

I’ve learned that heroes are the people who do what has to be done
When it needs to be done,
regardless of the consequences.
I’ve learned that there are people who love you dearly,
but just don’t know how to show it.
I’ve learned that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry,
but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.
I’ve learned that true friendship continues to grow even over the longest distance.
Same goes for true love.
I’ve learned that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.

I’ve learned that no matter how good a friend is,
they’re going to hurt you every once in a while
and you must forgive them for that.
I’ve learned that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I’ve learned that no matter how bad your heart is broken,
the world doesn’t stop for your grief.
I’ve learned that our background and circumstances may influence who we are,
but we are responsible for who we become.
I’ve learned that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other.
And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.

I’ve learned that sometimes you have to put the individual
ahead of their actions.
I’ve learned that no matter the consequences,
those who are honest with themselves go farther in life.
I’ve learned that your life can be changed in a matter of hours
by people who don’t even know you.
I’ve learned that even when you think you have no more to give,
when a friend cries out to you,
you will find the strength to help.

I’ve learned that writing,
as well as talking,
can ease emotional pains.
I’ve learned that the people you care most about in life
are taken from you too soon.
I’ve learned that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice
and not hurting people’s feelings and standing up for what you believe.
I’ve learned to love
and be loved.

away nalang oh!

haha :D this made me smile :)